Today is 20th September. It's my BIG DAY. I'm 22 today.
Birthday is always happy. Last night a lot of friends celebrating birthday with me. At first were my dear coursemate, or normally known as the 38 family. Although everybody are busy doing their thesis, still they spared some time to celelbrate my birthday.
Then were all my lovely housemates. Today they have a tough test. So i think that they will ignore me last nite, and perhaps celebrate for me today after their test. However, they surprised me with a birthday song and birthday cake.
Not forgetting those who wish me through sms, msn, friendster.......Thanks for remembered my big day.
Thank You all of you for celebrating my birthday even though everybody is busy. A heart-felt THANK YOU to all of you. It's lovely and touching.
BIRTHDAY, means i'm one year older. "What do i want?" is the question that i have to think of at the day. A lot of things is in my mind and i hope it is really what i want and it's something realistic that i can achieved. It is the biggest birthday wish that i hope i can make it happened in 5 years time. So now, i would like to take this opportunity to wish myself that all my dreams may come true. Haha :)
谢谢大家的祝福，也感激你们为我庆祝。无限感激，很感动... ...一切尽在不言中。有你们陪伴的生日感觉特别热闹，分外漂亮。我爱你们。
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
What Do I Want?
"Apa yang ingin anda capai atau dapat dalam tempoh 5 tahun akan datang?"
Lukis atau lakarkan secara simbolik.
This is the question that my counseling lecturer throw to us today in the class.
So, how do i suppose to answer the question?
I have been thinking for a long time and now i still don't have my answer. For all the time, i thought i kow what i want and what i suppose to do. But when this question was asked in the class today, i have no answer. i couldn't answer myself.
What is in my mind is just that i want to be a successful career woman, but what is the career that i want? What kind of work that i want? Where is my direction? It still remain a question for myself!
Now i realize that the thought of "i know what i want" is wrong. i dunno what i want. im blur, my future is blur. haih...
I only have short goals, that is i must study hard; i must do my final year project well. But my long term goal, my mission is missing.
Thanks to the question. Now i know something important is missing in my life. I must think and consider the question again. i must found my direction first before i am able to proceed to the next level.
I think this is a good question. Hope that you all would think about as well.
Lukis atau lakarkan secara simbolik.
This is the question that my counseling lecturer throw to us today in the class.
So, how do i suppose to answer the question?
I have been thinking for a long time and now i still don't have my answer. For all the time, i thought i kow what i want and what i suppose to do. But when this question was asked in the class today, i have no answer. i couldn't answer myself.
What is in my mind is just that i want to be a successful career woman, but what is the career that i want? What kind of work that i want? Where is my direction? It still remain a question for myself!
Now i realize that the thought of "i know what i want" is wrong. i dunno what i want. im blur, my future is blur. haih...
I only have short goals, that is i must study hard; i must do my final year project well. But my long term goal, my mission is missing.
Thanks to the question. Now i know something important is missing in my life. I must think and consider the question again. i must found my direction first before i am able to proceed to the next level.
I think this is a good question. Hope that you all would think about as well.
Saturday, September 15, 2007
爱...恨...成功
I have posted this in my friendster blog long ago. Something happened and make me think of it again. So, i decide to edit and post it here again.
爱，所以保护；
爱，所以珍惜；
爱，所以努力；
也因为爱，所以恨。
因为保护，所以受伤；
因为珍惜，所以难过；
因为努力，所以放弃；
也因为恨，所以执著。
没有执著，哪有坚持；
没有坚持，哪有动力；
没有动力，哪有行动；
没有行动，哪有成功。
爱，所以保护；
爱，所以珍惜；
爱，所以努力；
也因为爱，所以恨。
因为保护，所以受伤；
因为珍惜，所以难过；
因为努力，所以放弃；
也因为恨，所以执著。
没有执著，哪有坚持；
没有坚持，哪有动力；
没有动力，哪有行动；
没有行动，哪有成功。
- 到最后，是不是没有爱，就不会成功呢？
- 大家常把爱与恨放在同一条横梁上，那么爱与成功又能否息息相关呢？
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Should we PROTEST?
Read across an article in a chinese author's blog, and it inspires me to write this blog. To read the original article, please click here(史上最牛女秘书的下场).
The story is about a secretary who critisize her boss, the CEO, through e-mail who blamed her for his own fault. She not only mail it to her boss, but cc to all the staff of the company and branches. This makes a hot issue. Though most of the people support her, but those who support her are not the one who will give her a job. At last, she ended up jobless.
So, the moral of the story is that there is time that we should certainly have to bring up our
dissatifactions. Especially in universities, some lecturers are actually 'begging' us to speak out.
Anyway i think that there are some times and some people that
we shouldn't do so. We must know and we must understand the consequences of every step we take before we dare to do that. Just like this case, she ended up with no job. Don't you think it is
not worth?
Everyone has a line; every game has its rules. If you want to be in the game, you must follow the rule, because this is the basic requirement to win the game.
Previously, i was someone who doesn't know how to say 'no'. I will do
everything that others ask me to do, as long as it is within my tolerance. But lately, i learned to say no. Juliana has made me understand that tolerance is not acceptance. Tolerate will not settle the problem which i think it's right also.
But i would say that sometimes tolerance is also important even if we do not accept something. Take the story as an example, do you think that a little bit tolerate can keep the job with her? Maybe the situation will be better if she did not cc the e-mail to all the staff, perhaps. I hope i am right.
能屈能伸，乃大将之风。
The story is about a secretary who critisize her boss, the CEO, through e-mail who blamed her for his own fault. She not only mail it to her boss, but cc to all the staff of the company and branches. This makes a hot issue. Though most of the people support her, but those who support her are not the one who will give her a job. At last, she ended up jobless.
So, the moral of the story is that there is time that we should certainly have to bring up our
dissatifactions. Especially in universities, some lecturers are actually 'begging' us to speak out.
Anyway i think that there are some times and some people that
we shouldn't do so. We must know and we must understand the consequences of every step we take before we dare to do that. Just like this case, she ended up with no job. Don't you think it is
not worth?
Everyone has a line; every game has its rules. If you want to be in the game, you must follow the rule, because this is the basic requirement to win the game.
Previously, i was someone who doesn't know how to say 'no'. I will do
everything that others ask me to do, as long as it is within my tolerance. But lately, i learned to say no. Juliana has made me understand that tolerance is not acceptance. Tolerate will not settle the problem which i think it's right also.
But i would say that sometimes tolerance is also important even if we do not accept something. Take the story as an example, do you think that a little bit tolerate can keep the job with her? Maybe the situation will be better if she did not cc the e-mail to all the staff, perhaps. I hope i am right.
能屈能伸，乃大将之风。
Monday, September 10, 2007
Wake Up!!!
Haih...one week of holiday walk past so fast. It's monday again. Okay, i hate monday cause will have to face all the problems again. Though i have came back to uni in the middle of the holiday but i still can't finished the tasks that i have to do. Sigh...the conclusion is-i'm lazy.haha...
Anyway i know that it's the time that i need to get back on track again. It's time to turn on my turbo engine to go go go~~~~~~~~~Perhaps all of us have to. Not only those that are doing final year project, but all of us, no matter what u are doing. So gambate and jiayou lar... but don't forget to smile(就算再辛苦，也要笑着去面对） ya... :)
Go go go~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Anyway i know that it's the time that i need to get back on track again. It's time to turn on my turbo engine to go go go~~~~~~~~~Perhaps all of us have to. Not only those that are doing final year project, but all of us, no matter what u are doing. So gambate and jiayou lar... but don't forget to smile(就算再辛苦，也要笑着去面对） ya... :)
Go go go~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Friday, September 7, 2007
OFF学
今天作完东西后，便于朋友到klcc某书店闲逛。可能是志同道合，我们习惯性都会走到中文文学寻找吴淡如的作品。他又有新书上架啦-《乖女孩没糖吃》。
没钱当然不能把书买回去看咯。只好当场翻阅翻阅一下。翻着翻着，就看到有一章的题目为OFF学。什么是OFF学？OFF学就是在适当的时候停下来，让自己休息一下。这个道理大家都几乎动了，有什么好讲的。可是当中有一句话我觉得蛮对的，也很符合我现在的心情。那就是“如果从来没有turn on过，哪又何来turn off呢？”对吧？
为什么有这个想法？大学来到最后一年了，也表示做thesis的日子来了。我不是没有turn on啦，只是前阵子turn off下来了，现在有种不想再on的感觉。哇塞！有够懒的。开学以来，马不停蹄的做啊做，好累哦！
Anyway,我只是呻一下而已啦。我知道是时候要开始turn on了。所以，不只是我，给所有也正在奋斗的你，加油咯！我们一定会看到成功的那一天。
努力！加油！
没钱当然不能把书买回去看咯。只好当场翻阅翻阅一下。翻着翻着，就看到有一章的题目为OFF学。什么是OFF学？OFF学就是在适当的时候停下来，让自己休息一下。这个道理大家都几乎动了，有什么好讲的。可是当中有一句话我觉得蛮对的，也很符合我现在的心情。那就是“如果从来没有turn on过，哪又何来turn off呢？”对吧？
为什么有这个想法？大学来到最后一年了，也表示做thesis的日子来了。我不是没有turn on啦，只是前阵子turn off下来了，现在有种不想再on的感觉。哇塞！有够懒的。开学以来，马不停蹄的做啊做，好累哦！
Anyway,我只是呻一下而已啦。我知道是时候要开始turn on了。所以，不只是我，给所有也正在奋斗的你，加油咯！我们一定会看到成功的那一天。
努力！加油！
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
老师，请别乱打学生！
好生气哦！怎么会有这么不负责任的老师啊！
故事发生于9月3日。我妹今年就读5年级，是班上的级长。请问各位：在小学程度，一个班长的责任与工作是什么？莫过于帮老师做跑腿吧。如果说班上有学生纪律不好是班长的责任，是不是有点说不过去呢？那天老师有事请迟了进班。小学生嘛，老师不在当然呱呱吵啦。 突然老师进班，生气大骂。除了鞭打那几位吵闹的学生，连三位正、副班长也一起打。好过分，他们都没吵耶！打，不用紧，最令人生气的是那老师竟然打到我妹的手肿了，还瘀了。太过分了！于是昨天便到学校去找副校长理论。嗨!你还期待会有什么样的结论呢... ...
其实这种事情不是第一次发生了。记得我妹在二、三年级时也曾被老师打得手掌又瘀又肿，那时曾到学校吵了一轮。现在历史又重演了。小学生而已，有必要这么重手吗？如果说班上纪律是班长的责任，那难道老师没有责任吗？这是不是代表说连老师也应该一起被打呢？如果我没记错，大马教育局曾发表教师不能随意鞭打学生的条例。打，已经不对了，还要打到这样。在华小长大，我能理解为什么老师要用打的。可是，真得不能随便乱打啦！是又打，不是又打，学生会害怕的。
“老师很忙。”这句话大家都耳熟能详了。我并没有之一这句话的准确性，事实确实如此。可是学生纪律也是老师的责任之一。我没错吧？
你现在打得是人家的孩子，将心比心，如果被打成这样的是你的孩子，难道你不心痛吗？
故事发生于9月3日。我妹今年就读5年级，是班上的级长。请问各位：在小学程度，一个班长的责任与工作是什么？莫过于帮老师做跑腿吧。如果说班上有学生纪律不好是班长的责任，是不是有点说不过去呢？那天老师有事请迟了进班。小学生嘛，老师不在当然呱呱吵啦。 突然老师进班，生气大骂。除了鞭打那几位吵闹的学生，连三位正、副班长也一起打。好过分，他们都没吵耶！打，不用紧，最令人生气的是那老师竟然打到我妹的手肿了，还瘀了。太过分了！于是昨天便到学校去找副校长理论。嗨!你还期待会有什么样的结论呢... ...
其实这种事情不是第一次发生了。记得我妹在二、三年级时也曾被老师打得手掌又瘀又肿，那时曾到学校吵了一轮。现在历史又重演了。小学生而已，有必要这么重手吗？如果说班上纪律是班长的责任，那难道老师没有责任吗？这是不是代表说连老师也应该一起被打呢？如果我没记错，大马教育局曾发表教师不能随意鞭打学生的条例。打，已经不对了，还要打到这样。在华小长大，我能理解为什么老师要用打的。可是，真得不能随便乱打啦！是又打，不是又打，学生会害怕的。
“老师很忙。”这句话大家都耳熟能详了。我并没有之一这句话的准确性，事实确实如此。可是学生纪律也是老师的责任之一。我没错吧？
你现在打得是人家的孩子，将心比心，如果被打成这样的是你的孩子，难道你不心痛吗？
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